Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Lincoln's Pockets

“The date was February 12, 1976. A strange but significant announcement was made public. For the first time, the world was told the contents of Abraham Lincoln’s pockets on the night he was assassinated... At the risk of sounding cheesy, Abe Lincoln still speaks to us from his pockets. Inside the famous President’s pockets were two pairs of glasses, an ivory pocketknife, and a large white Irish linen handkerchief, slightly used, with ‘A. Lincoln’ embroidered in red. But one other significant thing was found carefully tucked in his pocket that night. It was a newspaper article on his presidency written by a guy named John Bright. The article had obviously been carefully cut and folded, as though Lincoln had taken precise measures to make sure he would be able to refer to it often.


So what’s so unusual about that article? First, you need to know something about the political tenor at that time to understand. During the period surrounding Lincoln’s assassination, the press had become relentlessly negative and brutal on the President and his leadership. Newspaper after newspaper talked about the poor job he was doing, his lack of leadership skill, and the negative impact of his administration. But, oddly enough, Lincoln was smart enough not to keep any of those newspaper articles in his pockets for frequent review. The article by John Bright was one of the few highly favorable newspaper articles published about Lincoln during this entire time period. Yet, wisely enough, this one was the only article Lincoln chose to keep close to him. I bet when things got tough, he pulled it out of his pocket and secretly glanced at the positive words again.

What kind of newspaper articles are you carrying in the pockets of your mind?”

-Jeanne Mayo

Thursday, October 7, 2010

A Note on Baptism

“Believe me, no man can enter into the Kingdom of God unless birth comes to him from water and from the Holy Spirit. What is born by natural birth is a thing of nature, what is born by spiritual birth is a thing of the Spirit. Do not be surprised, then at My telling thee you must be born anew."                                         John 3:5-7
“When a man issues from the womb of his mother he is only a creature of God, as a table is the creation, in a lesser degree, of the carpenter. No man in the natural order can call God “Father”; to do this man would have to become something he is not. He must by a Divine gift share in the nature of God, as he presently shares in the nature of his parents. Man makes that which is unlike him; but he begets that which is like him. An artist paints a picture, but it is unlike the artist in nature; a mother begets a child and the child is like her in nature. Our Lord here suggests that over and above the order of making or creation, is the order of begetting, regeneration, and rebirth by which God becomes our Father."

-Fulton J. Sheen
Life of Christ

Tuesday, September 21, 2010

Happy the man, and happy he alone,
He who can call today his own:
He who, secure within, can say,
"Tomorrow, do thy worst, for I have lived today."

-Horace

Give Me A Break

A physical worker can do more work if he takes more time out for rest. Frederick Taylor demonstrated that while working as a scientific management engineer with the Bethlehem Steel Company. He observed that laboring men were loading approximately 12.5 tons of pig iron per man each day on freight cars and that they were exhausted at noon. He made a scientific study of all the fatigue factors involved, and declared that these men should be loading not 12.5 tons of pig iron per day, but 47 tons per day! He figured that they ought to do almost four times as much as they were doing, and not be exhausted. But prove it!


Taylor selected a Mr. Schmidt who was required to work by the stopwatch. Schmidt was told by the man who stood over him with a watch, “Now pick up a ‘pig’ and walk…Now sit down and rest…Now walk…Now rest.”

What happened? Schmidt carried 47 tons of pig iron each day while the other men carried only 12.5 tons per man. And he practically never failed to work at this pace during the three years that Frederick Taylor was at Bethlehem. Schmidt was able to do this because he rested before he got tired. He rested more that he worked – yet he did almost four times as much work as the others!

Monday, September 13, 2010

Time Management

If you've got a free hour you should watch this video. It's good!

Randy Pausch - Time Management Lecture

Need More Time??

Sunday, September 5, 2010

Napoleon vs. Helen Keller

"The mind is its own place, and in itself
Can make a heaven of Hell, a hell of Heaven."
- Milton
"Napoleon and Helen Keller are perfect illustrations of Milton's statement: Napoleon had everything men usually crave -- glory, power, riches -- yet he said at Saint Helena, 'I have never known six happy days in my life'; while Helen Keller -- blind, deaf, dumb -- declared: 'I have found life so beautiful.'

If half a century of living has taught me anything at all, it has taught me that as Emerson put it, 'Nothing can bring you  peace but yourself.'"

-Dale Carnegie
"Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted."
-Randy Pausche
  The Last Lecture

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Is there a good side to temptation?

"There is a law written across the universe, that no one shall be crowned unless he has first struggled. No halo of merit rests suspended over those who do not fight.
Ice deserves no credit for being cold, nor fire for being hot; it is only those who have the possibility of choice that can be praised for their acts. It is through temptation and its strain that the depths of character are revealed."
-Archbishop Fulton Sheen
Blessed is he who endures under trials. When he has proved his worth, He will win that crown of life, which God has promised to those who love him.             James 1:12

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

"The cost of a thing is the amount of what I call life, which is required to be exchanged for it immediately or in the long run."

-Henry David Thoreau

Sunday, August 29, 2010

Don't Let the Beetles Get You Down

On the slope of Long's Peak in Colorado lies the ruin of a gigantic tree. Naturalists tell us that it stood for some four hundred years. It was a seedling when Columbus landed at San Salvador, and half grown when the Pilgrims settled at Plymouth. During the course of its long life it was struck by lightning fourteen times, and the innumerable avalanches and storms of four centuries thundered past it. It survived them all. In the end, however, an army of beetles attacked the tree and leveled it to the ground. The insects ate their way through the bark and gradually destroyed the inner strength of the tree by their tiny but incessant attacks. A forest giant which age had not withered, nor lightning blasted, nor storms subdued, fell at last before beetles so small that a man could crush them between his forefinger and his thumb.
"Aren't we all like that battling giant of the forest? Don't we manage somehow to survive the rare storms and avalanches and lightning blasts of life, only to let our hearts be eaten out by little beetles of worry -- little beetles that could be crushed between a finger and a thumb?"
-Dale Carnegie

Wednesday, June 30, 2010

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

how do you measure success?

“How many people can walk into our homes and just open up the fridge and help themselves? Not many. People need ‘refrigerator rights relationships,’ the kind that are comfortable, informal, and intimate enough to let us walk into one another’s kitchens and rummage through the refrigerator without asking. It is close relationships like these that keep us well-adjusted, happy, and successful.”


-Keith Ferrazzi

Monday, May 10, 2010

Are you 'comfortable being uncomfortable'?

"‘Lou Pinella, the Tampa Bay Devil Ray’s manager, says he wants a team of guys that are ‘comfortable being uncomfortable.’ I like that line. I’ve found almost everything really valuable that I wanted in my life was sitting right outside of my comfort zone."

Tom Hanson, Ph.D., and Birgit Zacher Hanson, M.S.
Who Will Do What By When?

Thursday, May 6, 2010

Pope Quote...


“Every country, rich or poor, has a cultural tradition handed down from past generations. This tradition includes institutions required by life in the world, and higher manifestations – artistic, intellectual and religious – of the life of the spirit. When the latter embody truly human values, it would be a great mistake to sacrifice them for the sake of the former. Any group of people who would consent to let this happen, would be giving up the better portion of their heritage; in order to live, they would be giving up their reason for living. Christ's question is directed to nations also: ‘What does it profit a man, if he gain the whole world but suffer the loss of his own soul?’”

-Pope Paul VI
Populorum Progressio (1968)

Quoted in A Civilization of Love by Carl Anderson

Monday, May 3, 2010

Let it be...




Sabbath
by Wayne Muller

Saturday, May 1, 2010

When's the last time you got really mad?

“I was in a meeting where a discussion was going on which finally became rather bitter. Tempers were becoming frayed and some of the participants were decidedly on edge. Sharp remarks were passed. Suddenly one man arose, deliberately took off his coat, opened his collar, and lay down upon a couch. All were astonished, and someone asked if he felt ill.

‘No,’ he said, ‘I feel fine, but I am beginning to get mad, and I have learned that it is difficult to get mad lying down.’

We all laughed, and the tension was broken. Then our whimsical friend went on to explain that he had ‘tried a little trick’ with himself. He had a quick temper, and when he felt himself getting mad he found that he was clenching his fist and raising his voice, so he deliberately extended his fingers, not allowing them to form into a fist. In proportion to the rising of his tension or anger, he depressed his voice and talked in exaggerated low tones. ‘You cannot carry on an argument in a whisper,’ he said with a grin.

This principle can be effective in controlling emotional excitements, fretting and tension, as many have discovered by experimentation. A beginning step, therefore, in achieving calmness is to discipline your physical reactions. You will be surprised at how quickly this can reduce the heat of your emotions, and when emotional heat is driven off, fuming and fretting subside. You will be amazed at the energy and power you will save. You will be much less tired.”

- Norman Vincent Peale
The Power of Positive Thinking

Thursday, April 29, 2010

The Lost Art of Thank-You Notes

“Showing gratitude is one of the simplest yet most powerful things humans can do for each other. And despite my love of efficiency, I think that thank-you notes are best done the old-fashioned way, with pen and paper.

There was a young lady who applied to get into the ETC and we were about to turn her down. She had big dreams; she wanted to be a Disney Imagineer. Her grades, her exams and her portfolio were good, but not quite good enough, given how selective the ETC could afford to be. Before we put her into the ‘no’ pile, I decided to page through her file one more time. As I did, I noticed a handwritten thank-you note had been slipped between the other pages.

The note hadn’t been sent to me, my co-director Don Marinelli, or any other faculty member. Instead, she had mailed it to a non-faculty support staffer who had helped her with arrangements when she came to visit. This staff member held no sway over her application, so this was not a suck-up note. It was just a few words of thanks to somebody who, unbeknownst to her, happened to toss her note to him into her application folder. Weeks later, I came upon it.

Having unexpectedly caught her thanking someone just because it was the nice thing to do, I paused to reflect on this. She had written her note by hand. I liked that. ‘This tells me more than anything else in her file,’ I said to Don. I read through her materials again. I thought about her. Impressed by her note, I decided she was worth taking a chance on, and Don agreed.

She came to the ETC, got her master’s degree, and is now a Disney Imagineer.”

-Randy Pausch
The Last Lecture

Tuesday, April 20, 2010

Some of life's greatest lessons can be from the most unlikely places...

“It so happens that his home is situated in a grove of trees. Very early one morning, unable to sleep, he arose and sat by the window. He became interested in watching a bird emerge from his night’s sleep. He noticed that a bird sleeps with his head under his wing, the feathers pulled all around himself. When the bird awakened, he pulled his bill out from under his feathers, took a sleepy look around, stretched one leg to its full length, meanwhile stretching the wing over the leg until it spread out like a fan. He pulled the leg and wing back and then repeated the same process with the other leg and wing, whereupon he put his head down in his feathers again for a delicious little catnap (only in this case a bird nap), then the head came out again. This time the bird looked around eagerly, threw his head back, gave his wings and legs two more big stretches, then he sent up a song, a thrilling, melodic song of praise to the day, wherewith he hopped down off the limb, got himself a drink of cold water, and started looking for food.
My high-strung friend said to himself, ‘If that’s the way the birds get up, sort of slow and easy like, why wouldn’t it be a good method for me to start the day that way?’ He actually went through the same performance, even singing, and noticed that the song was an especially beneficial factor, that it was a releasing mechanism.

‘I can’t sing,’ he chuckled, ‘but I practiced sitting quietly in a chair and singing. Mostly I sang hymns and happy songs. Imagine me singing, but I did. My wife thought I was bereft of my senses. The only thing I had on the bird was that I did a little praying, too; then, like the bird, I felt like some food, and I wanted a good breakfast – bacon and eggs. And I took my time eating it. After that I went to work in a released frame of mind. It surely did start me off for the day minus the tension, and it helped me go through the day in a peaceful and relaxed manner.’”

 - Norman Vincent Peale
   The Power of Positive Thinking

Monday, April 19, 2010

Quote of the Semester

Good judgement comes from experience. Experience comes from bad judgement.

- Unknown

Tuesday, April 13, 2010

How to save a nation:

"'The charisma of that man! The leadership of Mandela! He took my brother's arm, and he did not let it go.'


Did Mandela have any flaws? Sisulu knew him better than anyone. His answer was that his old friend had a tendency to trust people too much, to take their good intentions too quickly at face value. 'He develops too much confidence in a person sometimes,' he said. 'When he trusts a person, he goes all out.' But then Sisulu thought for a moment about what he had said and added, 'But perhaps it is not a failing...Because the truth is that he has not let us down on account of that confidence he has in people.'


Mandela's weakness was his greatest strength. He succeeded because he chose to see good in people who ninety-nine people out of a hundred would have judged to have been beyond redemption. If the United Nations deemed apartheid to be a crime against humanity, then what greater criminals were there than apartheid's minister of justice, apartheid's chief of intelligence, apartheid's top military commander, apartheid's head of state? Yet Mandela zeroed in on that hidden kernel where their better angels lurked and drew out the goodness that is inside all people. Not only Coetsee, Barnard, Viljoen, and P.W. Botha, but apartheid's ignorant henchmen - the prison guards, Badenhorst, Reinders - and its heedless accomplices - Pienaar, Wiese, Luyt. By appealing to and eliciting what was best in them, and in every single white South African watching the rugby game that day, he offered them the priceless gift of making them feel like better people, in some cases transforming them into heroes.


His secret weapon was that he assumed not only that he would like the people he met; he assumed also that they would like him. That vast self-confidence of his coupled with that frank confidence he had in others made for a combination that was as irresistible as it was disarming.


It was a weapon so powerful that it brought about a new kind of revolution. Instead of eliminating the enemy and starting from zero, the enemy was incorporated into a new order deliberately built on the foundations of the old. Conceiving of his revolution not primarily as the destruction of the apartheid but, more enduringly, as the unification and reconciliation of all South Africans, Mandela broke the historical mold."

- John Carlin
  Playing the Enemy

Sunday, April 11, 2010

Need a job??

"In his bestselling book The Tipping Point, Malcolm Gladwell cites a classic 1974 study by sociologist Mark Granovetter that surveyed how a group of men in Newton, Massachusetts, found their current job. The study appropriately titled 'Getting a Job,' has become a seminal work in its field, and its findings have been confirmed over and over again.

Granovetter discovered that 56% of those surveyed found their current job through a personal connection. Only 19% used what we consider traditional job-searching routes, like newspaper job listings and executive recruiters. Roughly 10 percent applied directly to an employer and obtained the job.

My point? Personal contacts are the key to opening doors - not such a revolutionary idea. What is surprising however, is that of those personal connections that reaped dividends for those in the study, only 17% saw their personal contact often - as much as they would if they were good friends - and 55% saw their contact only occasionally. And get this, 28% barely met with their contact at all.

In other words, it's not necessarily strong contacts, like family and close friends, that prove the most powerful; to the contrary, often the most important people in our network are those who are acquaintances."

-Keith Ferrazzi

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

A cold shower can do more than wake you up...

According to a recent study in Medical Hypotheses cold showers alleviate the symptoms of, and could even prevent depression. The study authors believe that the blues might be triggered by a lack of physical stressors. Because our skin contains 3 to 10 times more cold receptors than those registering warmth, cool water is the equivalent of mild electroshock therapy. It activates the sympathetic nervous system, causing the brain to release noradrenaline, a chemical with antidepressant effects. The study authors recommend spending two to three minutes in 68-degree water.

Monday, April 5, 2010

Creative Juices

According to Martha Beck we have a lot more potential for creative thoughts in our brains, we just need to know how to unleash it. She explains exactly how to do that in this article. It's interesting and worth reading!

Saturday, April 3, 2010

Friday, April 2, 2010

No Man is an Island

"It is therefore of supreme importance that we consent to live not for ourselves but for others. When we do this we will be able first of all to face and accept our own limitations. As long as we secretly adore ourselves, our own deficiencies will remain to torture us with an apparent defilement. But if we live for others, we will gradually discover that no one expects us to be 'as gods.' We will see that we are human, like everyone else, that we all have weaknesses and deficiences, and that these limitations of ours play a most important part in all our lives. It is because of them that we need others and others need us. We are not all weak in the same spots, and so we supplement and complete one another, each one making up in himself for the lack in another...


Every other man is a piece of myself, for I am a part and a memeber of mankind. Every Christian is apart of my own body, because we are members of Christ. What i do is also done for them and with them and by them. What they do is done in me and by me and for me. But each one of us remains responsible for his own share in the life of the whole body. Charity cannot be what it is supposed to be as long as I do not see that my life represents my own allotment in the life of a whole supernatural organism to which I belong. Only when this truth is absolutely central do other doctrines fit into their proper context. Solitude, humility, self-denial, action and contemplation, the sacraments, the monastic life, the family, war and peace--none of these make sense except in relation to the central reality which is God's love living and acting in those whom He has incorporated in His Christ. Nothing at all makes sense, unless we admit, with John Donne, that: 'No man is an island, entire of itself; every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main.'"

-Thomas Merton's "No Man Is An Island"